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Martha T Millar's avatar

So beautiful and prompt so many memories as AIDs (HTLV3 etc) overlapped with my training as a physician. Influenced and helped give birth to my entire specialty (Palliative Medicine). So many memories. Princess Diana visiting our Palliative Care Unit at NM - holding the hand of every patient. Lost on us at the time is she did not wear gloves - we did not recognize or understand the implications of her radical stance and humanity. Then the transformation of the protease inhibitors, the pivot in experiences. My first "AIDs patient" that I diagnosed back in the mid90's in my Internal Medicine just died last week in his 80's from heart disease and frailty and completed with grace and a peaceful exhale a life well lived. Wow

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Barb's avatar

Wow so happy you came across my feed. Great writing

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Janet Calvin's avatar

Thank you for this. 🙏

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FFS's avatar

Thank you 💔 If you did ever have anything to apologise for, your writing absolves you.

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Andrea Lawson Gray's avatar

Thank you, John. Every so often I remember and mourn all the beautiful young friends I lost. Thank you for reminding us. People are only really gone of they are forgotten.

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Rebecca Moore's avatar

This is such poignant and beautiful writing…..I look forward to your book

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Charlotte Freeman's avatar

Oh John, thank you for this. The socials hit me hard too this year. The lost college friends, my dear uncle. I wasn't in the thick of it like you were, but I remember all too well the terror of those days, and the way the entire thing was memory holed. This is beautiful. Terrible, but beautiful.

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